Once I found out my W went away n vacation and "hooked" up with someone I decided I would no longer accept her back. That was/and is a deal breaker for me. Infidelity is black/white for me.
Anyway, a friend suggested I join a dating website, I was reluncted(?) at first but a month later I did. I went out with 3 women. One I conracted and two whom contacted me. The one I contacted didn't make eye contact with me so I chose not to see her again. Maybe she was nervous but that showed me a lack of confidence.
Now the two who contacted me, one was 34 and the other 49, I'm 39. Both very attractive (to me, :)). The younger W was agressive, I enjoyed that, she had confidence and wasn't imbarrassed to talk about ANYTHING. The older W made me laugh and was out going too. I choose to see again bacause she was naturally a nice person and understood the dynamics of a relationship.
So I wouldn't worry about being on your late thirties, that has nothing to do with it.
Be happy for who you are. Ignore the criticism and you will do just fine.
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