When I say my W is free I don't mean she is free to do anything she wants to. As far as her life is concerned, it is no concern of mine. But I do have boundaries.
I will act if her actions have a negative impact on my kids, on our ability to co-parent or a negative impact on a part of my life she has no business being in.
She can't bring any man into our house (right now we are rotating in and out of the house while the kids stay there as we fight over custody)
She can't treat me like a doormat or abuse me. She can't endanger the health or well being of our kids. etc...
Her personal life is hers and has nothing to do with me. I don't concern myself with it anymore.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
