Bold actions will speak loud and clear to her and us that you are not pursuing her. She wants out. PACK HER STUFF UP. MOVE IT OUT OF YOUR LIFE. MOVE HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE DONE WITH HER. Do not do it in a mean way. Just matter of fact. Do not fear her reaction.
...but I don't know how to do this.
Start in the Master Bedroom. Look around and make it yours. Look at everything and say "Do I want this?" If it is yes, keep it, if it is no, get it out of there. Also ask yourself "Do I like where this is located" If the answer is yes. leave it. if no, move it where you like it. Start making the house "Just yours".
This is a state of mind. She wants out of M, She moves out. You have decided to help her.....
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Legally I can't force her out of the house and my atty said the court isn't likely to either. If I pack all of her stuff and put it outside, is that considered harassing and could put me in legal jeopardy?
I wouldn't put it outside, just get "HER clutter" out of YOUR house. Set it outside "her room", stack it in the garage.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
