Originally Posted By: Quicksilver264
But we will be divorced by the end of November. She could still be doing him by then. OR CHEATING ON HIM TOO!!!!!

Once it is FINAL for me there is NO GOING BACK.

She WILL learn the HARD way I guess. It just costs me my marriage, dogs, house, and thousands of dollars too.

Plus the house might be sold, she will be in a 1 years lease, and have banged God knows how many guys.

There's NOOOOO way I reconcile after that. That's starting over from LESS than square -100


Once you start rebuilding, if you two are done. Stay out of her reality, and KEEP her out of your reality. All of us know how you feel.

The new thinking once you are clear of this situation is opportunities and handling your business.