Also I haven't seen much remorse on her side for what had happened. She still seems to place the blame solely on OIN and from what's been seen here time and time again is that an apology must come from the WAS. If not, they may believe what they did was right and will end up doing it again.
Actually the blame is soley on OIN...
just ONE example here of how he treated his wife and suddenly now want her to love him back. He is LUCKY she didn't leave him years ago with talk like that. I certainly don't blame her for being cautious and think he is lucky she IS giving him a chance. No wonder she started to like someone else.
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Then I started to tell W some terrible things such as "I don't want to have children" (which I did I was just saying to get to her) I would then tell her "I don't want to have children with you" , "You would make a terrible mother", "You have so many issues that our child would not be healthy so I don't want to have children with you"...I said these things to break her down while all along I actually did intend on starting a family with my W but looking back I couldn't see how she would want to start a family with someone like me who said those awful things to her.
Totally unacceptatble behavior for a man who says he loves his wife. I wouldn't expect HER to have remorse for much of anything if he talked to her like that for ten years.
