I have been wondering about you so I was glad that you posted. Sorry to see things haven't changed much. Funny how he wants the D but doesn't want to do the work to get it. Sounds like my H but he did file and it progressed regardless.
Keep the focus on you and the kids and you will do fine.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory