The pillow beating really do work. I consideered getting a punching bag, but i really don't need more "stuff" in my life. However, if you have access...
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You know, I DO forgive my H for what he's done to me. He is mentally unstable and alcoholic on top of that, but my anger is his treatment of my children and grandchildren, or in their case, non-treatment. SA, you called me Mama-Bear the other day, and you are right where they are concerned.
I would have said the same thing fairly early on and I could get angry at H b/c of D's, but not for me. In my case, I was angry for me too, it just took me awhile to deal with it. I get the Mama-bear thing, I have that gene too. I was just angrier for me than I realized.
It's too bad about his career, but I guess like everything, he'll have to live with the consequences.
