Thanks, Silverado! That's good to know. His intentions are all over the place so I'm just not sure. Now, this other weekend thing (New Beginnings) does not claim to have those 2 intentions. It advertises as a last resort type deal with people who are possibly still in affairs or already filed for divorce. That's the only reason I thought it might still be good to go.
I know when you're letting go/dropping the rope you are not to pursue counseling or anything else for the WAS. However, since this is not the same thing, I thought it might still be good.
I don't really know much about Retrouvaille or what the difference between it and New Beginnings would be. I felt both were probably trying to get you to reconnect and rediscover what was good about M and how problems that seem insurmountable are not.
