I have not contacted her or talked to her since Saturday. I want to ask her if she is. I know that she thinks that it would be over if this happened. That I would never consider taking her back if she was preganant. I told her not to contact me again and that I would not contact her. Would it be wrong to ask in this instance? Sorry, I already sent her a quick email asking her. I didn't say anything except that I had heard that rumor. I don't know if I would forgive her and raise the child but I might. That is so lame of me. But should she know this information? She cries all the time so I don't think she is happy where she is at but she doesn't appear to want to be with me either. So, maybe she thinks she made her bed and has to lie in it. Is it wrong to tell that she doesn't?