Hey everybody... its been a long time

[Truegritter]

of course the pie in the sky family thing would still be ideal for the boys and everybody involved.

This may be something that sounds good to you and may have been your goal when you first got here.

But this

There is a part of me that is very angry, very spiteful

Is where you are stuck.

You are reacting to the anger and mistrust with tactical measures.

Don't blame you really Bradley that is what 99% (my anecdotal estimation not based in scientific process) of people would do...

BUT

We would be remiss in not pointing toward a greater opportunity here.

This is to find out who Bradley is at his core and what Bradley meant when he took his vows and said he would love his wife through better or worse...

Did you mean

I will love you and honor you all the days of my life

BUT

If you get scared and lose your way

I won't.

I am going to spend my nickel up front on my good friend Mach

It is easy to detach and move on from an a$$hole or (insert your favorite derogatory term for W here)

Much harder to detach and move FORWARD with love.

Love?

What does that mean?

You only will find that answer by looking inside of you Bradley.

I can only tell you that it is what we are here to learn.

And this...

Well, now no one has to hold our hand and NOW we get to be who we really are.

...is when we learn it.