21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

So do I give her what she wants?

She wants her freedom, should I just file and give it to her?

Does anyone really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about anyone or anything let alone trying to re-build a relationship?

I should just file and tell her I am going to stay with my brother in another state for awhile/maybe until mediation. I can either take the kids with me or she can have them and it will be no different than if/when we are divorced. One parent is always going to have the children for weeks on end.