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I HAVE dropped the rope. And I am walking away, but there are times when I look back and she is not following and it HURTS.


Then you haven't dropped the rope. You're still checking to see if you are towing her along.

I know it hurts. It hurts, you may be angry for a time, and it's harder when they are still in the same house with you, but you need to make YOU your focus. You need to be stronger--emotionally, mentally, and spiritually--and determined to live a good life and do what is right... especially in the face of adversity.

Things will become clearer one way or another.

No matter how this plays out, this is your OPPORTUNITY to become a stronger, more empathetic human being. This is your chance to grow to become who you were meant to be. Maybe you cannot even do that together right now? I don't know.

If you are religous, I have a prayer I often use myself:

Dear God,

Please help me to become stronger-spiritually, emotionally, and mentally--and help me find the clairity to do the right thing. I accept responsibility for my choices and actions, and I turn everything else over to you.

Amen.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/21/10 12:02 PM.

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