Seriously, the time to drop the rope has passed. You never could control her, and running through these scenarios and this continued snooping is--at this point--just a way for you to feel like you have some control in an otherwise intollerable situation.
She's not feeling the weight of her choices and actions because YOU are still fully there. She's still running from you.
Make your own plan... that hopefully doesn't include harm to your pets or abandoning your responsibilities as a pet owner.
Time for you to step up, be strong, and wish her well if she's so bent on self-destruction that she'd be willing to kill your pets.
The harder you hold on, at this point, the harder she is going to pull away, and she's willing to kill her pets to prove it.
Do you need a boiled rabbit to drop the rope?
Time for the robx type of attitude, so that if you absolutely must speak to her, the next time she acts up you honestly feel and say, "You are right. This isn't working for me either, but I am going to do whatever I want, and I think I want to keep my pets, and I don't want to be with anybody who could have them put down because they wanted to pursue a single life. What if we had kids? Would you have them put down too? I don't want this kind of drama in my life anymore".
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/21/1011:23 AM.
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