Mandy, You have tried to maintain a civil relationship w/the ex. I think you are very wise to step out of the equation and if your son and the ex should communicate, it will be on their terms. Your ex is still acting out and quite frankly, he may never grow up. Your son is more mature than he is on any given day.
I do hope that you and your son have many plans for the summer and can enjoy each and every day. I know your son is hurt by his father's crazy behavior, but life does go on and w/you there by your son's side, I am confident he will be okay.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
just to say the old home as eventually sold, more money for the ex and his skank to party away, wonder what will happen once this money as gone, mmm we will see. son and I are going on our holidays shortly and I cannot wait, two whole weeks were we can forget what goes on in the uk woop woop, also son turns sixteen whilst we are away another birthday that dad wont be celebrating or acknowledging with him, ah well never mind life goes on xxxxxx
"We're all going on a ... summer holidaaaay, to make our dreams come true oo oo oo, for a week or two." Or, something like that. Have a lovely holiday, and happy birthday to S15, soon to be S16.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
lol, BeingMe, yeah this is the life I want, to enjoy as much as I can with my son before he becomes a dad himself xxxx and I hope that is a fair few years away, and he doesnt treat his offspring like he as been treat, have fun guys
Mandy, I'm glad you are going on holiday and I hope you have a great time. Please don't talk about your XH anymore, he's a dead issue! Tell us about you and your son and what you are doing! Btw... Where are you going on holiday?
Braveheart I thought that was what this forum was all about, to come here and tell whats happening so that others may give you insight to this crazy journey, and also to give others help and insight into their own journeys, however I do understand also that it is better not to keep dwelling on the past, but hey if you dont want to read my threads and listen to my moans and groans you dont have to, I appreciate any input and replies that happen on my thread from yourself and also from others, I also sense that you wish myself and son out of all this mess, so do I but you know life is life so to speak, son and I are bound for Turkey and I just cannot wait, all the best Braveheart xxxx
I don't know about anyone else but I love reading your posts about all things going on in your life. I've gained a lot of insight and perspective from reading them.
I hope you will continue to post about whatever strikes your fancy.
I wish you and your son as I do everyone on the board, the best.
Mandy, I hope that you and your son have a wonderful trip.
You needs this forum to bounce things off of. Please continue to post.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
