Thank you. I've read all of that and I know the numbers. I was just hoping someone would be brave enough to let us into the real life day to day mind of those who try out a long term relationship with an affair partner.

Needinghope

Me: 30
H:29
M: ~6 years
No kids
H's EA: 3/07-10/07
H talking to OW 3/08-10/08 (What is it with him and March?)
Found 1 email to OW: 4/09
H moved out: 6-5-09