I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

Damn! No call from Zoobrew! But I tell myself that I know he is interested so just relax...and he has his kids! Maybe another late night? Last night he was just starting to watch movies with them at 10 p.m. I sure want to send him a text to say hi again... I guess that would be ok right? Just "good night zoobrew! I hope we can talk soon!" But then the other part of me says that he will contact me and I need to be patient. argggghhh! I guess since it is 11:30 over here I should just wait until tomorrow!

Well I talked to Rugby and he was pretty easy to talk to, but it was a little typical of conversation. His ex cheated on him- so he shared a little as did I ( a LITTLE). Now I may be totally biased and comparing him to zoobrew but I had to bring up the topics of conversation! Still, I won't write him off. I made sure Rugby knew that I was just getting out there, going on dates with others (I mean it should be a given but I think when a guy says it to me or I say it to them it helps establish a boundary kind of?).

He definitely is waaaaaay young sounding!Even though he is 33! He uses slang that makes me think of a 21 year old and he says "on there" ?? Like "my ex was spending money at the movies "on there'..."my daughter says 'daddy, I want to live with YOU' "on there."

He has a pool inside his home...a few cars...his own business...but was rather humble about it. I am not materialistic but an inside pool is impressive! I told him that I had to go to bed since my son would be arriving at 6 a.m. and that I would talk to him some more. He said "when?" !!!

So I kind of talked about some evening schedules and then he said he is available during the day for conversation any time if I have time so I said ok, I will keep it in mind! Talk to you later!