Hey guys, not a heck of a lot happening. I guess I feel I am in perpetual 'countdown' - this time for when WH leaves for good. How do I get him to spend more time with us? Maybe I need to think of it as 'dates'. Tomorrow we have a 'date' to walk the baby and go look at car seats. Then he is not coming to bubs checkup in the afternoon, instead moving to friends house 1.5hrs from city. I think he is planning to see her 2x per week. I have told him I am happy for him to see her as much as he likes as I'm feeling on top of things. Feelings for WH changing - I suppose I don't have much to say to this WH and our time bores me a bit. I think I am on my way to letting go. My counselor tells me, with regards to the name, that life is easier when there is no competition, no 'tit for tat'. So true.
Friends, any advice on how to play these last few weeks? Long term aim is to 'let' WH go to Europe, 'let' WH be with OW, 'let' WH make his choices and mistakes (i hope!), and know he can come back - not to a doormat who would take him back at any price, but would be open to it.
