What to do now is the question. I am fine with her keeping the house if we divorce. Currently SAHD/farmer, selling off them farm equipment, something we has discussed before anyway, and planning to go back to work.
I am currently in the guest room, W in our room. Since she says I am controlling and she needed space I left the bedroom. I can't see how I can go back in now, but if that's what I need to do I will.
Also, should I actually move out before the D is final (once I get a job) or is there more advantage to staying here. As I've said before I do not want to divorce.
I *might* be able to find a place to rent before hand and part of me says that's what will be best since she insists she will not work on it.
