Ok, got it, AA. I am not willing to have S5 at his house any more than it is, but for now I need to go completely dark. No more minimal casual contact free of conflict. If he thinks he wants to be with her and be out of the M, I will test him now. No more cake eating. I will only speak to him via email regarding finances and custody schedules. NO more family time. I will be gone when he is here with S and I will go straight to my room and refuse to talk until he leaves.
