I've found I can now be around her with no negative impact unless she is spewing on me which still happens although rarely.
How is your D? I have been very supprised of late to learn there are many things I thought my kids would remember but they don't (quite a blessing). They openly said today they would rather spend time with me than X. I told them that's probably because my work schedule allows me to spend time with them that X's does not allow.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13