I've found I can now be around her with no negative impact unless she is spewing on me which still happens although rarely.
How is your D? I have been very supprised of late to learn there are many things I thought my kids would remember but they don't (quite a blessing). They openly said today they would rather spend time with me than X. I told them that's probably because my work schedule allows me to spend time with them that X's does not allow.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
