Ok, I'm finally getting it. After a year lol. If he thinks he wants a divorce, I need him completely out of my life - test him. Give it to him. Wait and watch.
No more family time. No more talking unless it's business through email. No more chats. NO friendship. This is opposite of what the DB coach said, but frankly it's the one thing I"ve been scared to try. Nothing to lose. Probably gain more peace and sanity.
