Hey congrats, I know I'm new to your post, but as Puppy has said watch your back and take it slow. As my W was remorseful and did delete OM from Fb, phone, and emails.
I also told her that I really didn't want her friendship if she was going to continue with affair. So supposedly it stopped, but W still wanted D and this was back in Feb. Many mixed emotions since then and we were even intimate shortly after I broke the Affair.
Now after a few months of mixed emotions we are separated and she finally admitted she still had feelings for OM. Now that we’re apart it’s tough to know what to believe. So just be careful as I too want to make our M work, but you have to look out for yourself... Thanks talk later Hope