But, i also know that I am not one of those people who likes to be alone..so it would become a priority..to find a life comapnion..it is one of the things that I have always had on my my life list.
LTay, I had never lived alone until my H left. I was 59. It has been an extremely hard adjustment. I do not like living alone. Nevertheless, finding another companion is nowhere near the top of my priority list right now. Why? Because I am unwilling to offer an unhealed and unwhole me to anyone new. Because I know that until I can be content again with me, just me, I can never be all I want to be with anyone else. And that, LTay, is part of the reason everyone here says to focus on you. When you are LTay again, you will attract others to you, and be able to genuinely offer yourself to them.
I've been reading along. You really are doing better. Keep it up! Everyone here is cheering you on to you!
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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
