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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
5 Must-Do Tips if You're Living in a Sexless Marriage | http://www.sunherald.com/2010/07/15/2332700/living-in-a-sexless-marriage-five.html


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
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1/13/10: MC started
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
If you've had trouble getting through to your spouse, it's not b/c your spouse is a bad person. You just need better tools 2 reach him/her.


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M: 17 years T: 20 years
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1/13/10: MC started
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8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Love is a living thing. If you nuture it, it grows. If you neglect it, it dies.


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Sucessful couples realize their partners aren't supposed to be their clones - embrace your differences!


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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Finding out who's to blame will get you nowhere. Focus on what you can do to change things for the better. Start today.


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1/13/10: MC started
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8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Your Divorce Busting homework for this weekend: Find a situation that typically results in a fight between you and your spouse. Think of what your normal course of actions are during the interaction. Take a few minutes to build a plan of action that is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than what you normally do. Notice the results!


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
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1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
No two people define love in exactly the same way. Give love based on THEIR definition, not yours.


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1/13/10: MC started
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8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
Couples fight. The good news: If you fight the right way it can actually make your relationship happier and healthier.


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M: 17 years T: 20 years
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1/13/10: MC started
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8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Originally Posted By: Michele Weiner-Davis
This weekend your Divorce Busting homework is to do something that will make you happy! No excuses. What will you do for yourself this weekend?


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M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

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Although it's true that many marriages end in divorce (too many), just because your marriage may be fragile right now doesn't mean you have to become a statistic


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