I took D to the store and when we got home W was home from work. W came over to me as within minutes to ask how it (MC) went. I gave a version of the letting go speach. Told her I understand what I did to her and that is all cycled out of control. I had no desire to control her but was hurt by her actions and responded in kind. Her response - "that's why I'm not sure I can get over the past", now this is the first time she has said "not sure" instead of "can't". Told her I would be moving out as soon as I can, she said there is no reason to right away...
Can you say mixed signals. She kept trying to start conversations with me about different things, I kept them short, but polite. Actually talked to her mother tonight in front of me. Again, she went out of her way to tell me goodnight (as she went into what was our bedroom)
I'm sticking to the withdrawl and will see what happens.
I am trying to be very careful not to get to excited over a few possibly positve small actions but she is acting differently the last few days.