and is it normal to think that I am wasting precious time waiting for something that may never happen.. when at my age, since life is so short..I should be out there finding someone who i can grow old with? I mean it's not like I'm going to get Divorced and then run right out and start dating again, but man i really miss the intimacy.
I think it's normal and I can see where age could be a factor. My only caution would be to make sure you are really done with him before you go this route. Not only for yourself, but you could hurt someone else.
Sometimes the loneliness sneaks up on me and feels like a weight. Mostly these days, I have ways of coping with it. I get out and go do something fun (even when my heart may not be into it at first). Just being out and about in the world makes me grateful.
It's easier to hear possibilities when you H isn't the focus.
