I appreciate you sharing your experiences ~ they sound very similar. As I was preparing things for my attorney tomorrow ~ I was reviewing journals and such over the past 6 months. I realize that I need major healing! I know that he has to go on this journey and I know that I have to be out of sight while he does it ~ I'm just trying to figure out the balance. Should I text or email him once a week regarding updates on house and S? He typically doesn't call the kids - but he'll text them maybe twice a day. To be honest - I'd rather never text or email him unless an emergency.
How detached did you get?
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time