Your wife will learn life lessons eventually one way or the other QS. I would prefer to see that she learn safely within the marriage, or better yet already learned them from her MOTHER when she was a child..
Clearly both childhoood and divorce have not educated her in maturity... She may have to learn the hard way... I certainlny hope she smartens up in the next few weeks.
Moving in with a college guy you don't even know because you think he's HOT?
Seriously QS, do you think that guy is going to be above board with her?
The LAST two guys she thought were "hot" where violating a marriage and military law... Your wife isn't being very selective right now...
Just leave her to learn her life lessons the hard way. She had a chance.
I would have a private chat with that FT and tell her to stop playing tag team and to start doing her damn job.
