21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

Well well well. After W called me from work and found me at Starbucks asking if I was even in town. Not sure where she thought I was. She came home and asked what I did today? Set up question. I told her I went to Home Depot, Dr Appt and Starbucks (she never did ask if I was with anyone...she knows I have no friends but I was with 2 friends for 2 hours). She said, You didn't talk to your lawyer today? I said no. I haven't talked with him for days. She said you didn't file for divorce today? I said no. I asked if she had talked to her lawyer today? She said yes. I asked if she filed? She said no. She said my lawyer called her lawyer wanting bank account info. So all those questions about what I did today was her thinking I filed. So then she shifted into security mode. She asked, When is your job interview? I said I moved it back to the first Friday in Aug. I said hiring guy is on vacation anyway. Not really a question you ask if you are not going to be living here. But I did receive a letter in the mail that someone had asked for my work savings plan account number. I know the number so it wasn't me. That's what you would do if you were leaving...start counting the pennies. I think she is still weighing her options and none of her reasons looks like love or R. They all seem to be about money.

I was upbeat and cheerful and played with the kids and made sure she could hear us laughing and then she came up and colored a picture with DS and played Old Maid with DS and DD. I've been in a good mood all night and I think she had been thinking pretty hard since she thought I had filed.

Chuck