Mr Navajo- I will use "Mister" because what you did was spectacular and deserving of that level of respect.
Everything Puppy says is dead on. (I know, it's like saying the sun is bright and yellow)
I am going to use your handling of this as my inspiration and template since my day for this is Thursday.
Congratulations. I know it doesn't 'feel" like a win, but it is.
You have establsidhed you self-respect and dignity. You did the right thing and the right way.
THAT IS "Why we do it'
PLEASE don't swell my head any more! I am just a poor b@stard trying to work my way through this hell and have been getting EXCELLENT advice here.
I truly wish you the best of luck and that you will find the strength and peace to make it through Thursday. Please let us know how it goes and know we are all pulling for you!
Me-44 W-41 M-20yrs S13 D18 ILYBINILWY-June 2010 (On our Anniversary)