No, I think you are reading a situation only you can read, and you followed your instincts. We are all sitting here at the other end of this virtual world, and can only go on what you reveal. I am sure there are many nuances, and extra things that you just can't express it all. In the end, one's gut feeling is all you got, and one can only hope it leads to a healed M, or some conclusion where you can find peace.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim