Taylor, Not all marriages will be saved....you have to remember that this is only a small group compared to what is in the real world....success is not always measured by reconciling. Success can also be measured in your survival, self-confidence, self-worth and above all else...finding you again. Each and every person that posts here is a success story in their own right whether they save their marriage or not.
No one knows what the future holds....some are divorced now, others may reunite w/their former spouses years down the road, some leave the board and then reconcile, others reconcile while posting here and then leave to work on their marriages.
Do not make assume anything by the number of postings...only you will know what is right for you when the time comes.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
