I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

So stbxh came to pick up S. I asked him about the yard...did he have any more estimates? He said he was thinking of just renting a tiller and putting in seed himself in the front yard and getting dirt to put in the back yard to fill it.

????

So I just said "sure." WHat I wanted to say was "WHEN? You've been talking about putting in grass for 2 months now!"

And why is he deciding to do it himself now? Save money?

Oh and I am about to go to my custody class tonight (#3...one more to go, thank goodness!). I think I will walk around the neighborhood (it's gorgeous!) and

Oh and zipliner's emails are SO SERIOUS! Sheesh! If I hadn't have met him at the meet up, I would not think he had any sense of humor! I realize we are just communicating about where to meet and when but here is a sample (excerpts):

him: What area of town are you in? I'm in---. Lets meet in the middle and share a beer.

me:"Well I would like to have a beer to myself if that's ok! (ha ha)"

him: "I just moved from( my area) just down the street from (my neighborhood) Too bad we didn't meet sooner. How about __ at 6:30?"

me: "No kidding? I live right by ___ Elementary!! "

him: Neat. I'll see you Thursday.

Ok well tonight I am torn between keeping my phone open in case zoobrew calls or calling Rugby man (Bobbi Jo, you inspired me to nickname these men from the nicknames you gave your internet dates!)

I mean Rugby has kids this week (he also does week on week off...why couldn't he have kids next week? lol!) that need to be in bed at some point and I told him I would call him this week, maybe tonight...but I think there is a good chance zoobrew will call me around 9:30! argh!