What are the best resources you have read to better understand MLC? I have read DR, A woman's guide to changing her man without him knowing it, a link from cadet about detaching, lots of stories here, bits and pieces from the millions of self-help for your marriage books I have ( none of them ever go into much detail about it)..was at another midlife crisis forum and never posted because they seemed a little volatile there, and tried to look it up on the internet. There really isn't much about it as far as I've found.