Came home a little early to pick up my S to go play golf, he enjoys it. Woke him up from his nap but he takes a while to get up. I went into the bedroom to say hi to W who was reading a book in bed. Said hi, and she engaged me in conversation with "how was work today?". I understand from these boards that is a way to explain to her all the things I do in my day to make her feel a part of it, so I told her about some problems I solved today, and others I didn't. I burried my face in the pillow jokingly about my day in frustration, and she reached up and starting rubbing my head. I let her do that for about 4-5 seconds then sat back up. Said I was going to take S to golf.
Left her there without a hug goodbye, did not initiate one or say ILY. Just left after saying "See ya! Have a good time tonight W".
Came home, she was at the door waiting for us, said she missed us. Gave my son a hug and then I just walked on inside. Stood at the counter having a glass of tea and I said, "Good to be home, good to see you again". She immiately initiated a hug.
I can see how it is now more fulfilling if she initiates the affection. I just means a whole lot more.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
