Different woman. The first time it was his best friend's wife, who he didn't really even Like! That time, he never left home more than 3-4 days, but when he was home, he was drunk and angry at me. Affair lasted about 5 months, drunken anger about 9.
This time, he has been succussful in his career in the Army that he is the NCOIC ( RE: BIG DOG) at Ft. Chaffee. The OW is a Staff Sgt. of his who is, get this, married to a Major. She is also the same age as our oldest child. He is currently living with her, but I believe my complaints to the powers that be may have just succeeded in him being told to move out. He is now looking for an air conditioner for our travel trailer. Not that he'd tell me any of this.