Hi guys,

It's been almost a year since my last post and I have now been divorced for four months. It's been a long and painful journey, but I know more about life and myself now.

But I still have questions.

What's it like on the other side? What's it like to be the mistress or the WAS when an affair is involved? What happens when the two are alone with they know? What's a marriage like that begins in that way?

If you can answer these questions, I would love to hear from you and I promise to with hold judgement in exchange for your honesty.


Needinghope

Me: 30
H:29
M: ~6 years
No kids
H's EA: 3/07-10/07
H talking to OW 3/08-10/08 (What is it with him and March?)
Found 1 email to OW: 4/09
H moved out: 6-5-09