Arianne,

Write those damn letters. Let it all out. Say all the things you are dying to say and can't or won't, because it would be unwise. Write pages and pages. Make a journal of it. Then Burn it. I know that sounds corny, but it actually works. I felt so much better after I got it out. Word to the wise - don't do it in the house, it sets the smoke alarms off.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011