Had a visit with my IC this afternoon. She suggested that I send a care package to my H that includes a book by John Gottman. SHe said, what do I have to lose? I told her, he may be so annoyed that I had the audacity to include a book on marital self-help that he may just ignore the package all together.

Your thoughts?


Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison