AA,

I believe my H has been carrying on an EA with OW for less than a year, since about Sept 09. If there was an PA, it would have happened while I was away, between April and June. The OW is married and according to my H, her H is oblivious to her A. Do you think my H's withdrawal period would stll be 3 months? Should I initiate things to do with my H during this period to help cheer him up?


M 39
H 41
T9 M6
EA found Dec 09
Separated Apr to Jun 10
Currently in house separation