Oh, well if it's useless in your experience I'll ignore it. I'm still going along with the no contact (I think I just hit 10 or more days with no initiation of contact to him and no replies to his contact with me) and I'm not planning to be the one to file. My lawyer even said after the prop. settlement is done for me to sit back and do nothing and let him do the work if he wants a divorce so badly. Thanks for the reply, Allen.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying