Taking actions based on your personal integrity and core values is needed.
What are your core values? What do you stand for as a man?
Simple thing: Do you want to be with a woman who lies to you? She needs to be remorsefully for this. She needs to feel the loss. She needs to be the one afraid. NOT YOU.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712