I simply CANNOT think of one single time anything good came after saying or hearing those words...can anyone else?
Miss, I get the feeling that no matter what anyone says, you already know what you are going to do...I also get the feeling that you are going to provide a cautionary tale to the next guy who thinks laying down a boundary on his wife who may or may not be dating but is close to the day she can file for a D is a good idea.
Boundaries work when you can enforce them, boundaries are great when they are wanting to work on a realtionship....boundaries almost always backfire otherwise.
Boundaries because you are hurt or pissed off?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
