Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys so looks like the general consensus here is to:

1. celebrate DD's b.day separately
2. be direct and firm about the rest

Here's what I have as my final draft:


I have all the bills on autopay from my accounts except trash if they still have your name on them then go ahead and have it removed just make sure they know not to disrupt my service. I'll add $xx.xx to the next alimony check to cover the last and *final* ATT bill from my side.

You need to get your stuff out of the house by Aug xx. I'm not available on the weekend of Jul 31st, so far. Also, before you pick up your stuff I need an email from you stating all household items have been divided and finalized.

As for DD's b.day I've decided I'll make my own plans to celebrate with her. I'm good with splitting the weekend so she can also be with you on her b.day weekend.

School wise I've made an appointment for her to tour XYZ on Aug xx at 3pm. You're welcome to join.