Just to be clear, I am strongly on the side AGAINST any thought that her statement about coming home was in any way genuine.


My post to you earlier had absolutely nothing to do with trying to encourage you to consider her request. Nothing at all.


My post to you earlier was meant to point out that you have once again swung to an extreme position, something you have done alot of in the time that we have known you here.


I don't know about the rest of the people who have been here for awhile, but my time in the MLC vortex caused me to be very hesitant about moving in the direction of the extremes.



Real life too often seems to be lived in between the extremes.



It's nice the relative positions seem to have changed, although I would suggest that your recent happiness is not at all a sign that you have finished the storm and found your full self again (though it's certainly a good sign, eh?).



My message to you is that NOW we will find out who Bradley really is. NOW we will find out how much Bradley was in love with his wife and how much he valued the sanctity of his marriage and family life.



When we are being "wronged" it's just too easy to point the fingers at the bad person and in the process have people say and do things that try to make us feel better.



But when we are finally feeling pretty good? Well, now no one has to hold our hand and NOW we get to be who we really are.




So what's it going to be Bradley?



...and for my part at least, I'm not expecting a final OR complete answer (this is a complicated essay type question...)




Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."