New here, not sure where to start

[irishblessings]

Wow - it must be Hell Day for LBS!!! I have been puking again today. Can't get rid of the pain!
Warrior - I like the way you said "getting away from center"
Tay - Yes, to all of the things you listed up there - that's actually a great action plan. As far as the cooking and laundry - I thought the Laura Munson article was great where she said she would always cook and set the table for 4 but most of the time there would be just 3 at the table. I think you do those things because that's who YOU are - that's what YOU do. It's a kind gesture / no expectations. If you begin doing those other things you've listed - and just do your business with the cooking and laundry - I think you are doing a good job at GALing. Just my 2 cents - which may not be worth anything today!