Listen, I know you filed and I understand your reasons why. However, you have had continued contact with your H, beyond that of coparent…
So I have a question…
Do you really want this D?
Not from a financial or logistical aspect, but from an emotional one…
Is this really the right thing for you? Is this the right thing for your beautiful girls?
If your answer to any of these things is no, or even not sure, then I think you really should take another look…
Your H, he would have a lot of work to do, to make anything close to a M work. And so would you. You would also have to have a ton of patience with him and the situation.
No expectations.
Considering that you have been going on with a R (sort of) with him anyway, is it possible that you postpone the legal aspect of it for a while?
To see if he begins to make the changes that you would need, to see if he really means what he says?
Sweetie, regardless of any outside circumstances, your children, finances, etc…what is it that you REALLY want?
In that you should find your answer…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
