Early Parole from the MLC Chain Gang?????

[Truegritter]

Is this an opportunity to have a R talk with her?

Missher IMO no...

Not at all.

I think she is feeling pressure from you based on the events of the past month.

The ML and your efforts to try and get some sign she is back in the game.

I am sorry to be blunt but that is what I see.

She is telling you this in her email that she doesn't want to hurt anyone (i.e. you) and the kids.

"she may want to work on the M in the future but not right now".

I think this is really how she feels and you're not listening.

She doesn't want this right now Missher...

There is nothing you can do to change this so the best advice I have for you is to just drop the rope. Don't call her or text her let her contact you.

Say about tennis that you don't have any expectations but is clear that she thinks you might... so best you don't play.

Then drop it.

I really think giving her space right now is best...I know that is not what you want to hear or do and you know I know how that feels.

IMO drawing a boundary and communicating it right now will look reactionary and controling.

Just go dark without a word let her come to you...