Yes, she is very effective in turning things around and making it look like I am the one who is being unreasonable. Thing is I have gotten to the point where I don't care very much (note I did not say "at all" because I'm not quite there YET) what she thinks anymore and I have gotten past the point of wanting to have to play detective just to see what my W is up to. It's not the kind of life I really want to live. It's not healthy at all and saps all of the energy out of me.
