Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[antlers]

My son has been staying with me for quite a while now (his choice)...not as long though as my daughter has been staying with her mother. I haven't seen my daughter since the middle of March. I have pleaded with STBXW over these many months that she shouldn't be influencing and/or keeping my daughter from me. I have told her many times that I miss my daughter and that I want to see her. STBXW never responds to me regarding this.

Haven't heard from the kids mom since since July 3rd. Today I get this from her...

"You have and continue to destroy the bond son and I had with your lies, manipulation, and controlling behavior. You continue to hurt me and these kids because you are a selfish individual. The only thing you're sorry for is that we even got married and are financially bound. I want to see and talk to my son. This is one of the worst things you've done, however it doesn't surprise me that you'd do something so sick even to your own child".


How do I respond to that?


By making me responsible for everything, she makes herself responsible for nothing! She is doing, and has been doing, the very thing with our daughter that she accuses me of with our son! And she sees no problem with that!

Isn't there some hypocrisy there on her part?

How do I respond?